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Programs and studies.
Our recommended book studies offer safe, Biblically grounded places for healing, growth and lasting change. Whether you are beginning your own recovery or starting the conversation in your church, there is a place to begin.
Healing happens in community.
Through small groups, people find connection, encouragement and accountability while they gain tools to understand past wounds, break unhealthy patterns and walk in greater wholeness.
These programs serve both personal healing and churches that want to build a culture of openness, support and restoration. To join a study, call a leader on the Find a group page.
- For the church
- Studies for women
- Studies for men
- For men or women
- Studies for youth
- Resources for parents
For the churchOpen the conversation
For Freedom Workshop
Full dayThis one-day workshop features real-life testimonies and a broad overview of sexual addiction: its root causes, its impact on individuals and families, and the paths to healing. Led by experienced recovery leaders who share their own stories, it is a powerful way to introduce the topic to your church and cast vision for future ministry. About the workshop.
Sexual Integrity 101
8 sessions, 2 hours eachA course for the church, in eight sessions of two hours each. See the publisher for the full course description.
Sexual Integrity 101 at Pure Desire (opens another website)Conquer Series
2 to 3 monthsA video series that is a crash course in sexual addiction and the Biblical path to healing. It is an excellent first step for a group, and often leads members to continue on the path of healing.
Conquer Series at Pure Desire (opens another website)
Studies for womenHealing for wives, partners and women in recovery
Betrayal & Beyond
10 months to 1 yearHelps women understand their own pain and confusion after betrayal, and explores addiction, childhood and relationship trauma, family of origin, attachment styles, self-compassion and self-care. The group itself becomes lasting, safe friendships with other women who have also experienced betrayal trauma.
Betrayal & Beyond at Pure Desire (opens another website)Unraveled
10 months to 1 yearA deeper understanding of the roots of sex and love addiction and the behaviors specific to them. Topics such as childhood and relationship trauma, family of origin and attachment styles help women see how past experiences shape coping and present behavior.
Unraveled at Pure Desire (opens another website)
Studies for menFrom first steps to leading others
Seven Pillars
9 months to 1 yearA deeper understanding of the roots of addictive behaviors, such as trauma, helping men see the connection between past experiences and present behavior.
Seven Pillars at Pure Desire (opens another website)Compassionate Warrior
9 months to 1 yearThe follow-up to Seven Pillars, designed as the next step for men who have been diligent in following what they learned there.
Compassionate Warrior at Pure Desire (opens another website)Help. Her. Heal.
5 monthsOften done alongside the other studies, it helps men recovering from sexual addiction learn empathy, so they can be as supportive as possible to their wives during the healing process.
Help. Her. Heal. at Pure Desire (opens another website)Warpath Series
9 months to 1 yearA video series from Soul Refiner for men who have been diligent in applying the principles of recovery and are beginning to see the light of freedom. This hard-hitting series prepares men to lead others and have the greatest impact possible for God's glory.
Warpath at Soul Refiner (opens another website)
For men or womenOffered in both men's and women's groups
Conquer Series
2 to 3 monthsThe video crash course in sexual addiction and the Biblical path to healing, offered for men's and women's groups.
Conquer Series at Pure Desire (opens another website)Free to Thrive
3 to 5 monthsAn overview of dysfunctional family systems and trauma, and how they affect decision making and unhealthy coping skills.
Free to Thrive on Amazon (opens another website)
Studies for youthPre-teens through college
Living Free
Book studyA book study for college-aged students.
Living Free at Pure Desire (opens another website)Behind the Mask
Book studyA book study for girls, pre-teen through college age.
Behind the Mask at Pure Desire (opens another website)Top Gun
Book studyA book study for boys, pre-teen through college age.
Resources for parentsKeeping kids safe and talking openly
Protect Young Eyes
TrainingChris McKenna founded Protect Young Eyes to create safer digital spaces for children and families. A leading voice in internet safety, he works with state and federal legislators and NGOs on modern laws for today's digital threats, and offers practical, up-to-date trainings that help parents protect their children online.
Protect Young Eyes (opens another website)Greta Eskridge
Author and speakerA Long Beach author, speaker and homeschooling mom who helps parents connect deeply with their kids while navigating hard topics, including pornography, digital safety and healthy relationships. She speaks on topics such as Parenting in the Age of Pornography and Cultivating a Healthy Sexual Culture in Your Home, and wrote It's Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn. Find her on Instagram at @maandpamodern.
gretaeskridge.com (opens another website)
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Coalition leaders run these studies across Southern California, in person and online.